Basic:
/buffme Help - shows the help menu
/buffme BuffMeOn true/false/on/off/0/1 - Turns on buffme functionality.
/buffme BuffMeSilent true/false/on/off/0/1 - Turns off reply messages.
/buffme BuffMeGuildOnly true/false/on/off/0/1 - Only buff guild members.
/buffme DisplayUI true/false/on/off/0/1 - Always display the UI or not.
/buffme PauseMacros true/false/on/off/0/1 - Turns on pausing a running macro.
/buffme Show/UI - Temporary toggle the ui window.
/buffme BuffRequestPhrase <buffword> - The word you want to designate for buff requests "Buffme" is default.
/buffme BuffSpellGem ## - This is the spell gem you want to use for buffs.
Examples:
/buffme BuffSpellGem 5; this would change your buff gem to gem 5.
/buffthem
/tell shamandude buffme endure cold
or
on "shamandude" /buffthem ChillyWilly endure cold