Odessa, man or woman?
I have read more than a hundred of Odessa's posts and found nothing overtly feminine, like calling people 'hun', or anything of that sort. 'Odessa' ends with a soft vowel sound, which, in the US, is typically female. However Odessa is a skilled programmer, which is typically associated with the masculine gender (sorry ladies, just reality). Odessa uses a flower for an avatar (an unusual choice for a man). My first thought was that the flower was the state flower of Texas and Odessa was from Odessa, TX, but the Texas flower turned out to be a BlueBonnet, so that theory was shot down.
It realy doesn't matter except for the nuances of our language. I just want to know which personal pronoun to use in reference so I don't get it wrong. Is it 'he' or 'she'? From reading the way peeps reference Odessa, avoiding the personal pronoun, I know I'm not the only one to not have been able to make a confident assumption. So please, someone who knows, let us know.
Is he/she my hero or my heroin?
I have read more than a hundred of Odessa's posts and found nothing overtly feminine, like calling people 'hun', or anything of that sort. 'Odessa' ends with a soft vowel sound, which, in the US, is typically female. However Odessa is a skilled programmer, which is typically associated with the masculine gender (sorry ladies, just reality). Odessa uses a flower for an avatar (an unusual choice for a man). My first thought was that the flower was the state flower of Texas and Odessa was from Odessa, TX, but the Texas flower turned out to be a BlueBonnet, so that theory was shot down.
It realy doesn't matter except for the nuances of our language. I just want to know which personal pronoun to use in reference so I don't get it wrong. Is it 'he' or 'she'? From reading the way peeps reference Odessa, avoiding the personal pronoun, I know I'm not the only one to not have been able to make a confident assumption. So please, someone who knows, let us know.
Is he/she my hero or my heroin?